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“The only cure
I know
is a good ceremony,
that’s what she said.”

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Why Ceremony?

Ceremony is one of the few ways we have to mark moving from one place, often in ourselves, to another location within ourselves. Ceremony enlivens us as we create new paths. It is a sacred marking.

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Hi, I'm Elia!

I am a Ceremonialist, Interfaith/ Interspiritual minister, who trained as a hospital chaplain, as well as a certified mediator, an accredited wedding officiant, co-host of the podcast Wonder Queer, a long-time Al-Anon fellow, and a teacher, writer, student who revels in their Jewish lineage.   

Types of Ceremonies

Weddings

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Transitions

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Testimonials

Elia Singer was the creative glue and magical pipeline for making our wedding in July of 2022 a huge success.  We leaned into Elia's deep skill sets to support us in writing our vows, Elia functioned as a liaison, reviewing both our personal testaments as we drafted them to make sure we were aligned and 'vibe-checking' so we didn't have to expose our vows to each other ahead of time.  It was an invaluable service and gave us confidence leading up to the big day.  Elia also helped tremendously with our teen participation since they wanted to lead a toast.  Wrangling a reluctant teen into getting something down on paper, providing feedback and editing support, and being a non-parental listening ear all supported a successful tear-jerking toast.  With their wealth of knowledge, decades of experience as an English teacher to all ages, and highly attuned artistic and spiritual practice, Elia brings wisdom to ceremonial experiences of this magnitude.  You might only do something like this once and Elia's loving participation and integrated assistance were key to pulling off a day that was as fabulous as we dreamed.

-Lukas Blakk

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Ready to start creating? Get in touch with Queering Ceremony today!

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